Aug 062009

Charisma is a force that makes you want to listen to a speaker or pay more attention to a presentation. It’s a great help in many public roles, but also in everyday life. It will make people listen to what you have to say and take it on board, regardless of what you are talking about.

While it is true that some people just seem to be born with it, there are techniques that can teach you how to develop charisma, and are often followed even by those who appear to naturally exude it. These are the easy tips to developing charisma:

  • Always expect acceptance: if you always expect to be treated as an equal, chances are you will be.
  • Success is more about mental attitude than mental capability; remain optimistic about everything, and always wear a smile on your face.
  • Always think before you talk: think fast, but talk purposefully.
  • Slow down. Talking or moving too fast makes you look scared. Always speak or act purposefully, but do not dawdle.
  • Be aware of your appearance – looking professional is half the battle.
  • Don’t allow yourself to be bullied – if somebody criticises you, remain calm and ask why they believe that.
  • Posture is important: if you have correct posture, you will not only look more in control, but also feel more in control.
  • Look people in the eye – doing so will make you look more at ease and also give you more control over the situation.

If you find you need more help with putting these ideas into practice, subliminal messaging can be a great aid in teaching you how to develop charisma. Our develop charisma CD will help you to target your mind with positive suggestions, which will take root in your subconscious and spill over into your life.You will become naturally more charasmatic by eliminating the thoughts, worries, and behaviour patterns which hold you back.

Aug 022009

Self motivation is an important thing to have whatever you’re doing, whether it is wanting to be better at your job, trying to quit smoking or just wanting to be a better friend to those around you.

It can, however, be very difficult to keep up the same levels of self motivation you felt at the beginning of a task, such as quitting smoking, towards the middle or end of it, and as such it is important to know how to increase self motivation. Fortunately, there are some simple ways you can implement in your everyday life to increase your self motivation and drive for success at these tasks.

Here are just a few of the ways to do so:

  • Report to someone: having someone who can hold you accountable if you fail to keep up with the tasks you have set for yourself can be very important to keeping you on track. Find a friend or support group to support you in your task.
  • Stay positive: the power of thought is huge. Negative thinking can be very damaging to your overall progress, while positive thinking is one of the most powerful things you can do to help you through anything; if you think you can do it, then you have much more chance at success.
  • Set goals: if you set yourself goals along the way, such as going so many weeks without smoking, or keeping up with a fitness regime for a certain amount of time, and reward yourself for keeping to these goals.

While these simple methods to self motivation can be very effective, you may also need extra help. Subliminal messaging can be a very powerful aid to increasing your self motivation. Our “Extreme Self Motivation” cd, or many others in our range of subliminal CDs may be of use to you.

These CDs work by aligning your subconscious mind with the conscious goals – that of being more motivated. They tap into your subconscious mind to make you more motivated from the inside – out.