Increasing your charisma may seem very difficult, but following these short steps make it much easier to create the atmosphere of a charismatic person. The question of how to increase charisma is not one of mental capability or a genetic trait, but something that you can in fact learn through using the techniques outlined in this short guide, and more. Some of the ideas in here may seem very simple, but each of them are important to increasing your charisma:

• Be comfortable with yourself: if you are not comfortable with yourself, then others will sense this and be less comfortable with you. This is the essential first step, so learn to just be yourself. Master this before you try anything else.
• Know your own weaknesses: if you are uncomfortable with large groups, try to engage people individually or in smaller groups. Also try to become more used to situations you don’t like by immersing yourself in them. If you enter into a social situation you are uncomfortable with a few times it will get easier and your confidence will grow.
• Learn to listen: let the other person finish speaking without interrupting them. This will relax them and make them more comfortable around you. Once the other person feels comfortable with you they will give you the attention back. They will listen to your every word too.
• Ask relevant questions: when listening, ask questions relevant to the person’s conversation, rather than relating it back to a personal experience straight away. People are interested in you when you are interested in them.

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To some people, it may seem like there is a huge amount of effort involved in any social situation, particularly if it involves meeting new people. A shy person may often avoid such functions, though there is no reason why they should. Shyness may seem like an insurmountable obstacle sometimes, but there are ways to overcome shyness. Overcoming this is mostly about learning new habits to re-write the old, negative habits that are the hallmark of a shy person.

Here are some of the ways you can learn to overcome your own shyness:

1. Join clubs and events that interest you: it is much easier to engage someone who has similar interests to you rather than total random strangers from all walks of life.
2. Determine why you are shy: if you know the causes of your shyness, it becomes much easier to overcome it. Look for the underlying reason – if you can resolve this then all your troubles are over.
3. Try to be approachable: if you smile and look friendly, it may be that you do not need to approach new people, as they will approach you.
4. Behave as though you are confident: often, just acting this way will make you feel much more confident in yourself and is a key factor in overcoming shyness permanently. This is the old fake it till you make it approach
5. Reduce your fear of rejection: if you imagine the worst possible scenario, you will always be pleasantly surprised, even if only by a lighter rejection than you’d imagined. Once you can imagine the worst case scenario decide if you can live with it if it does happen. If you decide you can then go ahead and take action

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If you have low self confidence, there are ways to boost it. You do not need to be reliant on others’ opinions of you for this to work, and self confidence is not a genetic thing as you may be led to believe. While it may be difficult at first, learning how to boost self confidence is an invaluable resource for improving your whole life. Through learning how to do this, you can become a person worthy of the respect you deserve.

Self confidence is a state of mind, and as such can be changed to suit you, if you allow yourself to change. Here are just a few of the tips to boost your self confidence:

• Always look your best: showering and shaving regularly can do wonders for your self image, and through this your self confidence. Dressing well achieves the same end.
• Set small goals: achieving these will make you feel better about yourself and improve your self confidence.
• Act positive: if you act positive, sooner or later you will actually start to become more positive, and naturally the more positive you are about life, the more positive your self image will be, and your self confidence will grow with it.
• Improve your posture: if you have bad posture, keep reminding yourself to stand up straight and act as though you belong where you are. If you do this, you will soon learn that it affects other people’s ideas of you positively and this will help improve your own self confidence

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